Question : Disillusioned by the totalitarian, unreal, and completely disconnected aspect of spiritual love, I don't see how, at the moment, to express the reality of this energy. I don't understand how love can be dissociated from spirituality. Are they two different things? For the “spiritual people”, love equals God. That kind of statement just makes me mad.

Michel

Answer : Love and spirituality are indeed two different things. As well as are Soul and Spirit. Real love exists only at the Spirit level. Love felt by the Soul, if deprived of the Spirit's light, is created from a battle of wills. At this level, love is an illusion that manifested itself in domination and submission. For example, generally speaking a man dominates a woman and therefore has the impression of loving her. For her part, the woman is submitting herself to the man, giving away her space. Thus, it gives her the impression of loving him. In both ways, love manifests itself mostly through culpability because this feeling gives the impression that each one is able to care about the other. The Soul is tied to the animal side of human being and therefore leads us to look for warmth in our relationships. But this warmth is the product of a friction powered by the dominator/dominated reflex. Love experienced without taking into account the cold intelligence of the Spirit is called spiritual love. Which means that the being has not yet integrated the intelligent principle of love in his body and Soul.

To love from the Spirit generates a deep respect for the being and a non-judgement attitude. It is difficult to achieve because the Soul keeps associating love with warmth, while real love comes from the cold expression of the Spirit. Cold, here, does not mean that an individual is indifferent but rather that he is connected to his own creative source. To love from a Spirit level allows a real exchange between two individuals because it is not based on battle of wills. This is called real love. This love can be understood only after what we call a vibratory chock, which allows the connection of the being with his own Spirit's “intuitive vibration”. This love is the only one able to bring on Earth the harmony and peace that we are so much waiting for. In other words, it is one thing to be connected, but to learn how to put into practice self respect and respect of others and how to take action in life without creating any domination requires a lot of training. This knowledge is rather new in human history and still only few people can transmit it.

You rage with God's disciples is sane and normal. It will force you to individualize your consciousness in order for your being to be no longer the prisoner of a collective belief that is, more or less, a spiritual lie. To understand this lie and to tear apart its every veil is the path toward individual liberty. Through the ordeals that push us to explore this lie, we discover the strength to hate, in the sense of targeting everything that deprives us of our link with our own Spirit, including God and our own Spirit. For every human being must be able to master on earth the strength coming from his radiance for his own creative purposes.

Question: Hello there Sylvie
I am in a relationship with a man and we are going through some testing times. Not being one to 'possess', nor being one that wants to be 'saved', I find my partner is struggling with this notion as for the first time in a relationship he doesn’t have to be a woman's saviour, and so this is questioning his ideals about love; i.e.; can he love, what is love, and perhaps he shouldn’t be loving, perhaps this is all too difficult. I seem to be a mirror that projects or exposes his truths and whilst he welcomes this, he is becoming very afraid of the emotions that are rising. It appears he is resisting the soul's calling and instead drives himself crazy with ego thoughts as you say 'using the inferior part of the mental, we think and rationalize life. We stop the flow of our Spirit motion'. It is a challenging time in Love. Whilst he wants to reach the higher realm, I don't know if he is ready and/or how to help this man who I love dearly during this time.
Mirjana

Answer: It is hard for a man to be with a «free» or «lucid» woman because he thinks that she doesn’t need him. Your lover is at the stage where he should realize that loving is a game, tasteful and serious but a simple game. In other words, loving serves one purpose: share good time with someone you can laugh with because it is more fun than alone. Of course, this statement only works with a mature spirit otherwise, you cannot understand the real sense of being committed to someone. A mature spirit means that you can handle the psychological solitude effect of the ego loss. This solitude is hard to bear at the beginning because we feel that we are rejected or not lovable, etc. But, at the end, we discover that we are married with our Light! So when a woman sticks on her light, it is like if she is with someone already!! A man has a hard time to commit when he can’t have the exclusivity of his possession and when a woman stands right in her ray, than her opening, her availability is not clear for the man, unless he understands the same thing as you. So now loving someone he doesn’t have to prove anything to is barely undoable for a man, unless he considers his woman as a mother... But with a free woman, he doesn’t know how to prove he is a man because the traditional mechanisms don’t work on her. By definition, the old animal conditioning tells the man to dominate whoever and that alone will prove he is good enough. That is a man... But today, with the woman revolution and with this new higher consciousness link, we all have to review our position and our feeling pertaining to love. What is to be a man if you don’t possess, if you don’t dominate? This animal instinct by itself is something your lover could work on first for a good while. It is hard to «dominate» because it is related to his sexuality!

Your man is on a bridge. He knows he can find himself on the other side but he is afraid with this transformation to lose his men attributes. On top of that, what if you don’t like what he becomes? This is what he fears. But on your side, you cannot promise this changes will fit with you! Not necessarily on the attributes but just the essence itself. Despite all this, he’s got to take the risk! Otherwise, you will all be stocked into the fear itself. At this stage you both must go with the flow.

You surely can help him to understand that no matter what he discovers on the other side of the bridge, you’d like to discover him as much as him. But still, you cannot promise him anything about the future. Then you have to ask yourself too: are you ready to face the possibility of loosing your lover? What if, once he meets himself, the shock is so deep that he cannot handle any relation for a while? That you finally both find that you don’t fit anymore? Thinking about all this can be rough today because you are not there yet. And on the contrary, you could also end up with a beautiful relationship. So I suggest you to take the risk of trying to love each other for the good reason, in other words, try to be transparent during the whole process. This is a good risk. Going through this deep experience can free unknown energies that amplify the magic of both your essence. Once connected to your Higher self, your relation transcends the need to prove you’re a nice man or a lovable woman, the fear to lose the other, the pressure of being good enough, etc. You all just are who you are and that is the wonder both of you will be able to admire. This is the good side of crossing the bridge!

Question: You mention that you studied the movement of the Spirit, how or where did you learn about it?
Paul

Answer: I first learnt about the movement of my Spirit when I was 22. It so happened during the night. A total silent stability woke me up. I was in connection with my superior mental (supramental connection). But I did not know anything about this phenomenon yet. The day after, while I was speaking to my friends I could tell : "Hey! I did not know this before!" It felt like if someone was speaking through me but it was not chanelling. It was Me. Then I started writing my first book. Same phenomenon like if as I wrote, I knew that every thing coming out with this link was that. Since then, I have been taking the time to explore the connection. I learnt how to negociate with "up there", with The Intelligence and I give this instruction through sessions. I also met a few persons with whom I worked to ajust better my terrestrian reality to this Intelligence Principle. It is easy and hard. Easy because you feel more centered. But hard because we shift away from the majority sampler and that we can never stop to "roll our wheel" otherwise, our batery gets low (because we don't use anymore the mass power) and then our soul suffers again. This is the price to pay for the supramental connection : a non-stop process of creativity to build on Earth to create durability. This is roughly how and where I started to study the Spirit movement.

Seeing our Spirit in motion is accessible to every human with a sensitive mental antenna. When our brain uses the inferior part of the mental, we think and rationalize life. We stop the flow of our Spirit motion. This flow represents the amount of creativity available in the present time for the futur repercusions. As we create a movement, within our superior mental, in our supraconscience, we connect faster to our Spirit and therefore we can be more creative and aware of what is to do next. We save "gas", therefore we can go further with less. This is how we build our real strenght.

Question: How do we know when it is real love or illusion?
Laureen

Answer: The difference between real love and illusion is the same as the difference between the soul and the Spirit. The Spirit is cold and the soul is warm. In other words, when we feel insecure, we look for warmth. This is our vulnerable spot. And it is very hard not to fall into this desire of being wrapped around by an outside force such as our family, husband or wife, friends and lovers. Even concepts like religion keep people away from their real inner strength. Love starts within ourself. The opposite is called lack of selfconfidence.

The illusion of love immerge from the desire. A desire comes from the feeling of an inner vaccuum. We want to fill it up with the first thing that comes to, we call this a sign or a call where in fact, we don't have the inner power to stop the insecurity leading the move. Real love comes with the respect we have for ourself. This respect is connected to our capacity to stand out within the frame of time, knowing that things will happen at the right moment. If we respect that frame, we are ready to learn how to support our individuality. If not, then, for instance, it is very hard to remain stable in front of an institution that tells us how to think, what to expect, what is good or bad. Finally, the biggest killer of real love is the doubt. To quickly shut the doubt up, we tend to "do like others do" or we stop to listen to our inner voice. So we don't realize that we are not ourself at this very moment but the copy of what the majority is. This illusion creates a deep pain in the soul. And to calm it down, we fall again and again in the same game. And our superconsumer society likes to see the individual drowned down by the wave of the majority, it pays lots of money. Saying that, it does not always mean that our needs are opposed to the majority but to avoid a repetitive "soul-ache", it is good to keep our Spirit aware.